If you think all fem guys are unattractive and refuse to see them as more than their femininity, you’re a gay misogynist. When we tell ourselves that everyone who is female or everyone is fem behaves a certain way (and when we pass on this lie to others), we allow prejudices, stereotypes, and falsehoods about these demographics to spread and become reinforced. This is a psychological trick called “dehumanization,” and it’s how Hitler made the Holocaust happen. They become less than people - they become labels behind which you stop seeing their humanity. People who are “other” become one giant mass. ![]() In that line of thinking, all women are the same, all HIV-positive guys are the same, and all black men are the same. ![]() In doing so, you contribute to an environment in which people are reduced. What does this have to do with women? Let me walk you through it.īlanket refusals to a certain demographic of gay men - black, Asian, HIV-positive, kinky - indicate that you’re the sort of person who refuses to see people beyond their membership in said demographic.
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